Tonight after I tucked Jared in bed, I went downstairs to relax. I could hear some muffled crying but I figured it was because he was so upset that he got toothpaste on his hand while he was brushing his teeth. (He was REALLY angry!) I went up to check on him and I asked him why he was crying. He said, "I just don't know if I am going to be ready when I am a parent."
I was surprised at how upset he was. I told him that being his mom was one of the greatest things I have done but it is really hard work and takes a lot of patience. I then said that because it is so hard, we wait until we get married so that there are two people working on it all of the time.